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暖心小伙简单纯粹的善意之举

Simple act of kidness

龙腾网/月亮圆圆 2018-09-06 19:46:12 暖心小伙善意之举
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我也这样认为。我年轻的时候是这么想的:“屁呀,尊重是要自己争取来的,不是别人给的!”但我现在也老了,我的信念变成:每个人一开始都应该得到其作为一个人的的尊重。然后,如果他们后面证明他们没这个资格,那么你可以去掉这种尊重。”



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Watsonathan 3.2k points·11 hours ago
This is a valuable skill to have when you have young children. Good dude right there.

当你有小孩了,这就是项很有价值的技能。这是个好青年。

kayaker4lifee 866 points·11 hours ago
Respect elders is a great virtue to instill in our youth.

我们年少时就被灌输教育尊老是种美德。

andrewornot 47 points·7 hours ago
That’s what I think too. When I was younger I had the mindset: “Pssh respect is earned not given!” But I’m older now and I have the belief that everyone deserves respect as a fellow human being at first. Then later if they prove themselves to be a negative person then you can remove that respect.”

我也这样认为。我年轻的时候是这么想的:“屁呀,尊重是要自己争取来的,不是别人给的!”但我现在也老了,我的信念变成:每个人一开始都应该得到其作为一个人的的尊重。然后,如果他们后面证明他们没这个资格,那么你可以去掉这种尊重。”

shouldvestayedalurkr 38 points·7 hours ago
The opposite is a much less selfish way to teach.
Respect all beings until reason is given not to.

相反的是一种不那么自私的教学方式。尊重所有的事情,直到有理由让你不这样做。

Alit_Quar 13 points·6 hours ago
I don't get the part about "until reason is given not to." Just because someone doesn't act appropriately doesn't give me cause to treat them inappropriately. I'm not saying let them steamroll you but why return unkindness for unkindness?

我不明白什么叫“直到有理由让你不这样做”。仅仅因为某人行为不得体,并不是我能不恰当地对待他们的理由。我不是说任他们欺压你,但是为什么要以不友善回报不友善?

shouldvestayedalurkr 20 points·6 hours ago
I never said be unkind. Respect can just be how you feel about someone. I may disrespect someone but still be kind to them.

我从来没说过要不友善。尊重可以是你对某人的一种感觉。我可能不尊重他,但仍然会友善对他。

vonroyder 12 points·6 hours ago
There is a certain amount of respect you should give everyone though by default. Blatant disrespect for everyone is one of the shittiest traits a child can have.

在默认情况下,你应该给予每个人一定的尊重。对每个人的公然不尊重是孩子所能拥有的最垃圾的特征之一。

My philosophy is "If I want respect I have to give it first and only then do I demand it from others." And even if I think your religion or politics are stupid you are still deserving of me respecting your basic human dignity. Only truly shitty people like criminals who unapologetically harm others lose that basic level of respect from me.

我的哲学是“如果我想要尊重,我必须先给予,只有这样我才会从别人那里得到尊重。”而且即使我认为你的宗教信仰或政治观点很是愚蠢,我仍然会尊重你的基本人格尊严。只有像罪犯那样会毫无歉意地伤害他人的真正的垃圾,才会失去我的尊重。

wholovesoreos 65 points·10 hours ago
Except when they're racist dicks... But still show a little bit of respect to show you're better than them

除非他们是种族歧视主义者.........但即使这样也要对他们表现出一点点尊重,来表明你比他们更棒。

WildeStrike 64 points·10 hours ago
I’m not sure if this is the right sub for this but please help me understand where you are coming from.

我不确定在这个版块这么说合不合适,但请告诉我你是哪里人。

I whole heartedly agree racism is horrible. However when people are as old as the person in this video is it really that shocking that they still have some of the same values they had when they grew up? However horrible they may be. And I can imagine it being even harder to change your mind on these things the older you get.

我完全同意种族主义是可怕的。然而,当人们和这个视频里的老人一样老时,他们仍保留点他们在成长过程中形成的价值观是件那么令人震惊的事吗?不管他们的价值观有多可怕。我觉得吧,在这些事情上,年纪越大越顽固,越难改变观念。

That of course does not make it ok but I don’t really think I can make a judgement on them as a person but I can on their bad values.
Again sorry if this is not the right sub for this but I think we can also have a wholesome discussion about this :)

当然,这并不是说这样是没问题的,但我并不认为我可以从为人来评判他们,但我可以根据他们的坏价值观来判断。如果在这里说不合适那么我对此表示抱歉,但我认为我们也可以对此进行有益的讨论:)

yazen_ 30 points·10 hours ago
Totally agree with you. Respect is a reflection of your character not the others'.

完全同意你。尊重是你性格的反映,而不是别人的。

megggie 1.7k points·11 hours ago
What a great kid. Just genuinely kind.

这孩子真棒。很是善良。

icyriverbank 205 points·11 hours ago
We need more people like him these days

当前我们需要更多这样的人。

Chessoscar 763 points·11 hours ago
I am blind. What is going on?

已瞎,发生了什么?

AlietteM89894 1.2k points·11 hours ago
The kid standing up is putting his hand in front of the bar so the older lady/gent doesn’t hit her/his head on the metal bar.
Took me 4 loops to figure it out

站着的这个孩子把他的手放在铁棒前帮人挡着,这样那位老太太/老爷子的头就不会撞到金属棒上。我看了四遍才看出来。

junglebetti 310 points·10 hours ago
This makes my heart sing. Humans are AOK sometimes.

这让我心情舒畅。人类有时是极好的。

painterly123 132 points·10 hours ago
Dude. This made me all warmy fuzzy.

伙计。这让我很是温暖感动到哭。

CJohnn64 17 points·10 hours ago
Everyday hero right here. Love it!

日常出英雄,赞!

Rolin_Ronin 67 points·11 hours ago
What's going on here...?

发生了什么....?

wmcoogan 7 points·9 hours ago
Kudos to the parents... well done

父母教育的好,赞个.....做得好。

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